Finding balance at home and at work means constantly thinking about what you need and want, as well as what is right for your family. Some moms have a hard time asking for help, while others really have a hard time taking time for themselves. Whatever your problem, know that you are not alone. Take the time to identify your sense of balance and create it for yourself and your family. Remember that we are all in it together; it definitely needs a village to raise children. You can feel wild and out of control at times, but if you can find your support, be kind to yourself, and not judge yourself and others, you will find balance. You can deviate from it at times, but it's part of the parenting process. Don't be afraid to ask for help and don't be afraid to change. Whether you have a flexible or rigid schedule, you'll find a way to make it work and your kids will love you for it.