Wanting to be accepted is something everyone wishes at least once in their life. Always looking in the mirror and looking at people on social media who are really fit, wishing you could be that fit. That's when people start trying to change themself so those fit people will accept them and not reject them. When you have a want to be accepted, your attitude starts changing. You try to act and be like those fit people but all it does is cause stress, anxiety, and depression. You have a fear that if you don't get fit or act like them, nobody will accept you. The truth is it doesn't matter if they accept you or not. You have to change for yourself and not to impress others.