A man, regardless of his age, race, color, or culture, who is in a new or untrained relationship with a woman of any age, race, color, or culture, who needs to be trained by that woman in order to meet her requirements of happiness, contentment, fulfillment, and security-that is if security is important to her. Although the book basically talks about training relative to heterosexual relationships, it also applies to same sex relationships. If you meet a man who proves himself to be worthy (yes, worthy) of your companionship and friendship (first), you can train him to be your man (later). Timing is everything-if you start the training process early in the relationship, you can control its destiny.