Understanding that each parent has a unique parenting style and a unique place in the upbringing of a child makes a whole lot of difference in finding the right balance that will mold the kids to responsible adults. 'Smart parenting' includes: - Why this teenager parenting book is different - Who is the modern teen? - How different is the modern teen? - Communicating with the modern teen - Establishing and sustaining trust with your teenager - Setting boundaries that you and your teen can respect - Managing sexual attitudes and behaviors - Discussing serious issues with your teen - Promoting teenage self-esteem - Preventing teen depression - And much, much more... They will begin to take those first steps towards independence. As they grow, they begin testing boundaries in new and often frustrating ways.