Relationships are an ever-changing mental and visual occurrence. Many people have felt stupid while in a relationship or once the relationship is over. The title of this book highlights the idea that relationships make people do stupid things. Red flags in the relationship are often overlooked. The goal of this book is to educate about the importance of looking outside of your day to day relationship and objectively evaluating if you are giving the best of you to the relationship and if you are getting the best of your mate. No one should be made to look or feel stupid.Relationships are exciting and should be celebrated. The small things count in relationships. Communication is key. This book takes you on a journey of previous relationships and encountersby the author. He shares intimate difficulties that he had in his relationships and what he learned from feeling and looking stupid in relationships. He wants to thank everyone who he has beenin a relationship with because, without them, he would not have been able to grow and understand what he would and would not accept in a relationship. The author wants to provide hope for great relationships but advocates being the best mate possible.This is not just another relationship book. This is a guide to happiness in relationships. The relationship starts with a relationship with yourself. You must love yourself first before you can love another person. You are worth the world and you must be treated as such. Cheating in relationshipscan be a constant worry by someand this book gives some insights toaddressing that worry. The focus onyourself and your mental state is keyto happiness. Live a happy life.