I have gone through a divorce after 33 years of marriage. It has been really tough. I looked and looked for a book, any book, to help me through the long, lonely days and nights of depression. Every book I read told me what I did that was wrong and how I could improve myself for a better life. I continually kept searching for a step by step book to help me in my daily struggle to survive. In utter frustration -I decided to write the book I wish had been written by someone else. I know the book is short, however, in this time of crisis, a lady does not need to plow through hundreds of pages. The information needs to be fast and easy to read. I have tried to give the reader enough help to get them started on their long and difficult journey. I have also included poetry that I have written to help in the healing process. The focus of the book is to always keep your eyes on God, who is our greatest healer and our constant companion. With God by our side, we not only will survive, but we will thrive.