Elliott Katz is the author of nine nonfiction books and has done many radio and television interviews. He teaches the principles in his books to men and women, and speaks to groups. After the end of a relationship, Elliott Katz sought to learn about being a man in a relationship. He found books on relationships said little to him. He found powerful timeless insights that helped clarify the confusion many men have about what it means to be a man in a relationship. People started seeking his advice and would say, Why didnt someone tell me this before? That led to his earlier book Being the Strong Man A Woman Wants Timeless wisdom on being a man. His new book, How to Get Your Man to Wear the Pants So You Dont Have To shares strategies on how a woman can inspire a man to make more decisions and take the lead more at home and not leave all this emotional labor on her.