Girlfriend 101: Getting Past the Baggage to Have the Relationship You Want and Girls' Guide to Healthy Dating: Between the Breakup and the Next U-Haul. Often described as the lesbian Carrie Bradshaw, Kim redefines dating through the lens of mindfulness and self-responsibility and offers a new model for healthier dating and relationships by healing the most important relationship of all - the one with ourselves. A Midwest native, Kim resides in Southern California with her partner and their codependent cats. Find her at www.girlsguidetohealthydating.com, on Twitter @gg2dating, or text gg2dating to 22828 to subscribe to her newsletter. Message and data rates may apply.