Many of the challenges we face as women start in our minds - what we have we been made to accept and how we have been made to think. Today, the female is confronted with so many challenges, ranging from sexism, misogyny, sexual abuse, rape, harassment, objectification and the like. These are challenges that every female who seeks to get to the top in life, whether in business, education, politics, journalism, medicine, agriculture or public service, must first overcome in her mind. Regardless of the challenges the female might face, she must decide in her mind not to give up, or be discouraged, or be afraid to get to the top where she belongs. Regardless of our #MeToo story, we must know that we were created to rule over everything and every challenge too. In this book, I share with you how to overcome these challenges and the 3Ds (Desires, Decisions and Declarations) that will take you from just surviving in life to thriving in everything you do.