Relationships have the power to build while the flowers dry out, that is why I always recommend to my patients to try out new things. the major issue they tend to always have is the setback of not finding that once connection they did establish. the question pops up anytime I encounter most partners. how tailored fashion is your sex life? what imaginary sexual acts have you experienced? I tell my clients that having sex is good but how you have is GREAT. do not be Robotic about it as that would not spice the relationship. This book distinguishes between Control, rebuilding, and Perfectionism. It took me some time to understand that people in a relationship have it wrong when they feel the issue that sprouts with them have nothing to do with their sex life, that is funny. Your brain cells are electrons delivering strong signals around it that change the way the body reacts and when SEX is established in the manner described in this book, nothing is holding a stronger bond that is once lost. Take your time and read through cause trust me, this is nothing you have ever read.