Forgotten Memories

During psychoanalysis as a young adult, the author was treated by an analyst who distorted, misunderstood and misinterpreted painful childhood events. In a successful second analysis, Dr Schave was able to uncover forgotten memories of sexual abuse, buried from her conscious awareness for over 35 years. The author’s emotional contact with the realities of her traumatic past led to a healing process and as Dr Schave understood and overcame her childhood experiences, she was better able to treat other survivors of sexual abuse. Schave’s story is important to other survivors because it is a first-person account that details the recovery process. She relates what she can remember of her abuse and, more importantly, how she came to realize she was not a damaged person. Incest is taboo in our culture, making it a difficult subject to discuss. For this and other reasons, not much is known about how to treat survivors. With her hard-won personal and professional insights, Dr Schave explores various treatment options, focusing on the crucial importance of sensitivity, honesty and equal partnership between therapist and patient.
She leads survivors of sexual abuse through phases of therapy that include the toleration of feelings, reduction of stress, uncovering forgotten memories, confrontation and integrating the trauma.

Author Biography

BARBARA SCHAVE is a practicing clinical psychologist in Beverly Hills. She is the author of four books in the areas of developmental psychology and education: Identity and Intimacy in Twins (Praeger, 1982), Curriculum Design (1984), Issues in School Reform (1985), Early Adolescence and the Search for Self (Praeger, 1898). She works with survivors of sexual abuse in her clinical private practice.