Sex is still a touchy subject despite recent sex-positive advances. We live in a culture that vilifies people who are sexually adventurous and calls our fanatasies as shame-inducing perversions. Many people have never been able to talk openly about sex with their partner(s). But, you can get what you want out of the bedroom - if you ask for it. Why should anyone settle for mediocre sex?! Whether addressing sexual frustration with your partner, trying out new fantasies or negotiating the terms of a BDSM scene, Stella Harris believes that communication skills are vital to sexual fulfillment. TONGUE TIED gives readers straightforward advice on how to conquer their fears, identify their needs and feel positively empowered. Harris charmingly takes readers through all aspects of communication, from basic interpersonal skills to negotiation advice for expert-level kinky play. Learn how to have fun, embrace silly moments, support your loved ones and take personal responsibility for your desires. An incredible guide full of exercises, tools and personal examples, TONGUE TIED is a must-read for people of every experience level and relationship status.

Author Biography

Stella Harris is changing the way people experience their sex lives. As a qualified intimacy teacher and sex coach, she gives her students the tools and confidence to explore their sexuality safely and free of shame. An international speaker, Stella teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. Stella writes a weekly sex advice column for Portland's Willamette Week newspaper.