Two people can experience the same situation at the same place, at the same time and have completely different outlooks about what occurred. Paradigms are the maps of mental territory and the framework of how we add meaning to our experiences. This book is a personal development life guide that will teach you how to Shuttup and Listen, Take a Walk in their Shoes, Shift your Scope and to practice Response + Ability. In this book Souder expounds upon the basics of active listening, highlights the parameters of different view points and capitalizes the power of emotional intelligence. Learn how to expand your perspective, become a person of understanding and master emotional intelligence!