Negative communication is part of our everyday life. Negative language we know, hinders a childs growth and development; destroys the identity and self-esteem an adolescent is trying to acquire; sets aside goals and aspirations an adult is pursuing and destroys relationships, reputations and careers. It breaks up marriages, causes nations to be in conflict perpetually and creates a negative and insensitive society. What do you do when you become the target of hateful speech, slander, gossip, rumor, mockery, ridicule and all forms of negative comments and their unpleasant effects? How can we change ourselves and our negative society to become a more positive society that accommodates our rich cultural heritage.? How to Handle Negative Comments provides answers to the above questions. However, if your life has been ruined by negative language, and the negativity that has engulfed our society, do not lose hope, it is not the end. When the past is gone, and the present is a nightmare, and the future seems so bleak, you can brighten the future by lighting just one candle in the present. Stella Okolo You can start afresh, rebuild and blossom like the rose through the grace of the Almighty God and our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ who wants you to succeed. He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak. Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fail; but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagle; they will run and not grow weary; They will walk and not faint. Isaiah 40:29-30, (NIV)