J’Toya shares many unpleasant experiences that led her friends to mentally and physically self destruct. In the process, they became known as Hoochie Mamas because they fell victim to the violent world of drugs, rape and prostitution. They had nothing but negative role models in their neighborhoods and some of them had bad influences growing up in their homes. Society expects women to be discreet, clean and submissive and anything other than that creates a negative stigma that follows them to their graves. J’Toya brings to us eye opening, heart gripping experiences that many readers can relate to and ultimately finds the love of an old friend she had lost contact with. She hopes to reach the closed minds of people who sit back and criticize so-called Hoochies and encourages us to not judge a book by its cover when it comes to the people we meet. Each man's hell is different and we never know what a person has been through.