Not your typical sex advice guide… This friendly guide takes a radical approach: it puts your experience at the heart of the book, and invites you to explore what might be enjoyable to you. Written in an engaging and thoughtful style, it challenges the messages we receive about 'normal' sex; looks at how to understand and care for yourself; delves into ideas of pleasure for different bodies, ages and tastes; explores relationships; and tackles the tricky topics of communication and consent. So, throw out the rule book and learn to listen to your own desires. AUTHORS: Dr Meg-John Barker is a writer, therapist and activist-academic specialising in sex, gender and relationships. A senior lecturer in psychology at the Open University and a UKCP accredited psychotherapist, Meg-John is also the author of Rewriting the Rules (Routledge, 2018) and Queer: A Graphic History (Icon, 2016). Justin Hancock is a sex and relationships educator working with young people and adults since 1999. His website BISHuk.com is one of the leading sex and relationships advice websites for over-14s and is sponsored by Durex UK. Justin is also involved in running Gender & Sexuality Talks and is a trustee of Sexpression.